Stress Health

Since approach anxiety is essentially the fear you have of interacting with women because you are too worried about what she might think of you, you really should focus on your positive attributes 100% of the time.

I know that this is much easier said than done, so follow these steps as well:

1. Repeat this thought out loud while looking in the mirror: I will have a great time with every girl I meet no matter what happens at the conclusion of our time together. I will congratulate myself over the good parts of my interaction and discard the bad parts of my interaction after determining the best way to correct what I did wrong.
2. The next time you begin your approach with a hot girl, just concentrate on having a good time with her and enjoy the way she looks, smells and her interesting speech patterns. This will allow you to experience your interaction with her almost like an "out of body" experience.
3. Think about the enjoyment you are getting out of the ability to just be able to go up to a complete stranger and starting a nice conversation about nothing. When you actually believe that you have improved your social life just by opening yourself up to other people, you will see that no matter what happens during your conversation that you are already the best person you can possibly be. No matter what the outcome is.

The real reason why detaching yourself from the outcome of your interactions with women is perfect for building up a strong inner game is because you are no longer concerned with every single interaction with a woman anymore.

No, your main focus from this time on is just taking the positive things you did in an interaction and ramping up and honing those things you did and implementing them in all of your future interactions.

YOU ARE NOW A TRUE SEDUCER- LEAVE THAT "DORKY GUY" BEHIND!

The reason why strong visualization techniques such as the one I described to you in this posting work so well is because your mind can be a very powerful thing to manipulate, both with negative imagery as well as positive imagery.

Why even bother with negative images of yourself as a dorky guy who can never get laid? Get rid of that image of yourself by visualizing your real persona as a true seducer of women every day that you first get out of bed.

You can have a great time with every girl you meet because you should have built up a strong inner game after having read my postings in that category. And when you affirm to yourself that you are a great catch for a woman, the girls you will be meeting from now on will have no choice but to accept that as a fact.

Here's the last daily affirmation I'd like you to start using on yourself right now. Just go and look in the mirror while calmly saying these words to your image:

Hot girls are always interested in speaking to me because I am a great guy with an amazing personality.

With those simple words, you are now in the process of growing your personality with women tenfold. Congratulations! Now just keep saying that to yourself for the next 30 days and you WILL see massive results from it.

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